For the longest time he was adamant about not wanting to screw me over but who knows where he is at if he is angry that he has to go get an atty. But, your right. There is no sense worrying about it now since there is nothing I can do about it.
I always read his claims to not want to screw you over as attempts to manipulate you rather than genuine, especially since they were often accompanied by requests to do something against your attorney's advice such as release funds or get access to his motorcycle without an appraisal in advance.
Interesting... now that you make me think about it EVERYTIME he has said he doesn't want to screw me over something was happening... I kicked him out... I filed for S... I filed FO... I took funds out of a joint acct... He lost his first atty...
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You're right--you don't know what he's feeling. My guess is you are correct he's in a hurry to unlock his funds or appease his GF--and if he's in a hurry your attorney will figure that out and it may give you additional leverage. Whatever he's feeling, he may not be feeling in two weeks.
That's a good point. And, that is why I wasn't able to go through with anything because what if I could mount some patience - what would things look like 30 days or 60 days?
I've put my phone in a safe place. My gut is still telling me to reach out to him... but I must do the opposite of what I want to do.... that is the correct move.
