thoughts on what we each want out of this as far as D???
Had to post in 2 parts. Website is glitchy today!
Asset division is mostly determined by formulas and laws about which monies belong to whom, but if you have any particular concerns, tell your attorney. They are YOUR professional negotiator. You also may, as LH hinted, after you are served and there's a draft on the table being discussed handle a bit of the negotiations offline to save $$$ if there are too many back-and-forth cycles but you are making progress.
