I wouldn't call breaking NC over this "stupid/foolish", maybe "rash/impulsive". I believe your intellectual side knows NC is best, and it's your emotional side that keeps you touching the stove.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I would not try to talk him out of it - I know that wasted time.
Good.
Originally Posted by KitCat
But, maybe we should have a talk about the next step forward?
If he's smart, the next step is he meets his attorney and follows their advice.
Originally Posted by KitCat
Having him confirm he has Atty
Why must you know now? You'll know within days of him having an active attorney when you're served.
Originally Posted by KitCat
and while still trying to be amicable we let them handle it
Controlling! You control if you're amicable and if you let your attorney handle the divorce. He controls if he's amicable and if he lets his attorney handle the divorce.
