You've just kept me from making a huge mistake - I was thinking about contacting and meeting up to discuss moving forward with removal of names from accts, etc and where he stands with what he wants to do next.
"Illusion of action" I need to do something!
Originally Posted by KitCat
The only reason I would contact is because when he last opened up he was angry that I had still not done as he had asked about the account --- not doing it is not listening to him right?
NO! That's not it at all.
Originally Posted by KitCat
I'm stressed because this is a lack of control on my part.
Ahhh. You are being honest with yourself KK. That's rare for you.
Originally Posted by KitCat
If I am afraid, which is what control is... what am I afraid of??? I'm afraid of the unknown, I'm afraid of disappointing him/giving him more reasons why this doesn't work, afraid of making more mistakes, afraid of him being gone for good.
This is normal KK. The difference is not acting on it. 90% of the things we worry about never happen.
If you guys are both fair people you should be able to come to an agreement with little problem.
