Write on here what you would say to him and I will give you his most likely response.
H- Can we talk about how things are going to be moving forward?
((((I know I cannot say - is this still our only option in moving forward?))))
Part of me feels like if he just had access to the money he wouldn't be pushing anything else at this time.
So you are considering giving him access to the money thinking it would delay and/or stop the D?
KC, you really need to get over your fear of D. Can it really be worse than having your H lie and cheat on you, then move out to be with the OW he is lying and cheating with? It is a legal procedure. If he ever wants to R with you it won't be hindered by the fact that you are D. No WAS that after D has considered Ring has said "Oh, I'd like to R with my LBS but darn it, we are D'd now." Trust me, if he ever wants to R being D'd will not stop him from trying. You being remarried. No obstacle will prevent him from trying to R! Not even if he is remarried himself. After all, he's already proven to be a lying cheater.
Last edited by Steve85; 07/06/2005:44 PM.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
