Can I assume that you saw this on his calendar? If so, I wouldn't say one word to him about it at this time. Why do I say this? Since he knows that you can see his calendar, he may have just put that out there to get you to break your NC w/him. If this is an actual appointment, allow him to come to you and tell you that he's met w/an attorney. It's time that you allow him to take a lead in this particular dance. You've done all of the work and worrying, give the man a chance to contact you about this one particular item. In the meantime, I would still get my ducks in a row and be ready for when he does contact you.
This is an excellence point --- along with LH
Yes, it was the shared calendar where I saw this and it was very vague - Teleconference. He would normally write down a name or something but he did not because I'm sure he would think I would look up any local attorney. I of course would never let him know I saw this.
He clearly tipped his hand 2 weeks ago when he admitted to seeing my calendar. So he is working under the assumption that I can also see his.
You've just kept me from making a huge mistake - I was thinking about contacting and meeting up to discuss moving forward with removal of names from accts, etc and where he stands with what he wants to do next.
The only reason I would contact is because when he last opened up he was angry that I had still not done as he had asked about the account --- not doing it is not listening to him right?
I'm stressed because this is a lack of control on my part. If I am afraid, which is what control is... what am I afraid of??? I'm afraid of the unknown, I'm afraid of disappointing him/giving him more reasons why this doesn't work, afraid of making more mistakes, afraid of him being gone for good. <<< that is some soul searching.
