Just take a deep breath and understand it’s all part of the process. You are wise to not beg and plead and realize that it will just lower your value in his eyes.
Did he text you this information?
No ----
It showed up on the calendar.
Yes, I was already in the process of trying to figure out how to remove myself from his calendar and vice versa.
I could ask that he do it but I would have to contact him so trying to avoid.
Trust me.... my gut is screaming at me to make contact with him. I'm absolutely terrified of this process... I mean terrified of all the crap that goes back and forth and feeling like he is screwing me over financially... its just a struggle.