Steve isn't saying that you flat out want to meet the OM when he said this :
Originally Posted by Steve85
If you are truly concerned about your children, rather than trying to institute two week notice rules and other things that cannot be enforced, you would ask to meet the OM.
I think he was saying if you're really worried then meet him, but you are actually worried about something else, right?
I wouldn't worry at all about the OM. He's an idiot and their affair is not dating or relationship and it's not going anywhere. Just let it go and worry about you and the kids.
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