I mean I don’t know he’s happy but it’s just an observation. He has a new little house that he keeps decorating / doing work to. Making it so permanent. He did admit he was drinking more than ever at one point after divorce and that his antidepressant wasn’t working for him. But other than that being 40 single sleeping with whomever he wants not having to answer to a wife. He’s the one who left he got what he wanted why wouldn’t he be ecstatic?

Im Left to clean up the pieces and be a single mother that I would have never chosen this life alone. I wish he would just wake up and realize we could make it work and be happy again. He will never take his wall down it seems.