Happy 4th everyone. I have a question, my H has been out of town for about a week and a half. During the time he was gone, I initiated a couple of texts and surprisingly, he responded with more than a one word answer.
He returned yesterday. Pleasant enough, but I did not bug him. This morning, he asked if I needed gas in my car (yes) and took it to get washed as well as a fill up. He also went to get his truck washed afterwards. The reason this is brought up is that he was in the habit of leaving the house without telling me where he was going. This has been a year plus of that. He told me where he was going then left. The filling up the car, used to be something he always did for me, then he stopped, now he is doing it again. I made breakfast, I asked if he wanted anything, (since I was in the kitchen already) and he said yes and ate. Those of you familiar with my situation know eating meals was a biggie for me.
My question is, does this behavior mean anything? As far as I know, he is still with his out of country 27 year old (whom he has never met) but he is being more like my old H. I’m not ready to speak to him about this as it isn’t still too new, (2 days!) does anyone have any advice, besides for me to continue GAL. I am full of hope, yet right now, he isn’t isolated in the other room, so whatever he is doing, isn’t all positive.
