As Spiral stated, you are more than welcome to remain here or at some later date, you may opt to move to the "Surviving the Big D" forum.
DBing is about saving you and helping you to move forward and discovering ways to deal w/the fallout of when your spouse walks out of the relationship.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
