Originally Posted by Mumin

It would mean I don't have to see or hear OM.


And here is the root of the issue. Mumin, be honest. This is less to do with your D finding out about mommy's new friend, and more to do with mumin finding out about the OM.

Did you think she's never date again? And then eventually introduce your D to a new SO? Or was your expectation that she's miss you and want to get back together? Mumin, you need to move on. Someday you might get the opportunity to reconcile with her, but the worst thing you can do at this point is to sit there and wait for that to happen.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018