Lol so your H said you shouldn’t be a Democrat and my H told me stop acting like Donald Trump. I am seriously lmao right now. Sometimes these WASes say the most ridiculous things and it makes everything pretty comedic.
I’m so proud of you for not engaging! Yes the not letting him taking the girls on a trip is a bit of control issue for you, but as long as you see that too, take your time to work past it. You are reasonably angry, and it might take some time to get there where you can let that go.