W's own parents couldnt even agree on if they both should come to her graduation from High school. I dont want to end up there... But then agian I wont be stepped on or misstreated by her.
Why the need to "agree"?! Mom decides if she wants to go. Dad decides if he wants to go. Sounds like neither one got over the other. If either one had, this becomes largely a non-issue.
As for me, I'd go to my D's graduation regardless of how my ex felt. "I'm going. Hope you come, too!" Fortunately, my ex-W and I get along well enough I invited her to a pre-party for my S's graduation and an after-party for my D's graduation and we attended those together for our children.
Remember, two people can only argue or fight if they both engage in it!
