However I still believe for young children it is very important and serious IMHO a new father/mother figure (=someone who spends time with the kids and is around or lives in the childs home) should be introduce very slowly and with a huge amount of respect. I think in some cases the "new parent" is actually a bigger change/impact on their lives than their original parents breaking up.
Still might say something about this to her. Or, just not use video.
So I understand: Is it the opinion here that post D you don't say how you feel or think about things to the WAS? because that's the vibe I'm getting. I see a lot of suggestions to move to email only. That sure indicates strictly formal communication. It would mean I don't have to see or hear OM.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021