I agree, it looks like that’s the only way forward.
She has moved out to her parents and took the kids. And says she is going to file a police report about me harassing her, but won’t if I move out.
I think that’s the eye opener for me. Maybe the Persuing comes across as a bit controlling because it’s like I’m not accepting that it’s over for good, but what she is doing in my eyes is controlling.
I spoke with a lawyer last time and went over my rights.
She still agrees that I can have the kids and says she won’t stop me seeing my kids but wants to have no contact with me at all.
So all I can do now is get my head down and focus on me and being the best dad I can be. I can’t fix her. Only she can do that. As much as what I think she is doing is wrong and totally the wrong way of going about things, it’s her decision.
I’m going to detach and go into silence and just be there for my kids
