WW post D (Thanks BenB part 4)

[Mumin]

Once again I guess you are all right.
I will think about this and discuss it with my IC. Need to get a new appoitment soon.

What you describe LH (mom making kids feel bad) is just as tough/big for me as the fact that she cheated.
Maybe co-parenting is a lost cause, we will see.
W's own parents couldnt even agree on if they both should come to her graduation from High school.
I dont want to end up there... But then agian I wont be stepped on or misstreated by her.

I will consider a boundary on FaceTime/video chat when OM is around.
OR I will simply never call again with video.

Why? What will you do in that 2 weeks?

I will prepare myself for talking to my child about their new step-dad.
Atm I dont think any of my kids even understand that concept. D3 sure doesnt know step-dads excist at all.

Man, if OM is going o be step-dad I might just break all contact and move to emails only. Thats at least how I feel now.