WW post D (Thanks BenB part 4)

[Mumin]

Thanks again for all answers! Just "talking" to someone about this helps me cool down.
Steve you are right about boundaries. But since kids could see her alone in the car with a man, its not far off for them to be asking about him as a new BF. They are young, but kids understand so much.

Mrb you are right she is not worth wasting my time on. I don't need her.
If my kids get uneasy about something that she has done, that will effect me but I can't control her. Detach!!!

Anyway, to explain.
If we are going to have some sort of co-parenting, some ground rules will have to apply.
IMO if a newly divorced person is to introduce a new boyfriend (not anyone) to there kids I sure think 2 weeks notice is a fair "rule".
If something like that can't be respected or understood by her I will probably give up co-parenting and stop all communication eventually.
It will take too much energy from me in my new life. Better spend that energy on my kids during my time with them.
Other things to agree on could be about food, price level of sport equipment, holidays, etc
When they get older it will be how late they can stay out? Drinking before 18? etc

XW wanting too access your house and file cabinet LH. Lmao