Maybe my own fault, cause i am weak, but kind of tried to talk to her last night about things. I know I shouldn't have.
She now says Im manipulating her and trying to control her and she has contacted the council (told them about it all and they have agreed that they will house her somewhere safe). It honestly feels like she is looking through tinted glasses. I know its my own fault for talking about it and not just detaching, but she is making me feel like im the villian. And she says that everyone she has spoken too agrees, but they are only hearing her side of things. Give domeone the full picture and story before allowing them to judge.
So according to what she said she can't live with me because of how I am harassing her. And is planning to move out with the kids.
This is all because I will not move out and it feels like I am punishing my kids because they are having to move out, well not having to, she is choosing to move out.
I think maybe she is right, if she wants space then move out. Maybe this will finally be the kick I need to actually start to move on. It just feels so strange how this has all happened so fast. I have allowed her to do this to me again.
