It's a tough choice. You want to do everything you can, and I get that. The hard part is that if she doesn't want it, it doesn't matter what you want anyways.
Can you be happy if you didn't force the MC b/c you knew her heart was not in it?
I think accepting her choice is not NGS bc you are accepting that you have no control over this so that you can focus on what you can control: your happiness.
I'm not telling you what to do here either. If she wanted to work on things, then great I'd say do that, but I haven't gotten that impression yet, unfortunately.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.