Completely lost, where am I?

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So file for divorce, get a divorce, and then chat with women on Bumble. Don't cheat to cover up your insecurities.

You misunderstand. I did end up creating an account, in "BFF" only mode. Which only connects me to other MEN who are looking for guys to do guy things with. I am NOT using it to find women to do date/sex things with.

Gotcha. Never heard of that. It's a GAL tool then?

Hi Texan.

W has resumed contact with OM?

Reset DB counter. Time to get boundaries in place (those are for yourself)

Believe nothing that she says...

She has no choice, he is a co-worker. Having zero contact with him would require her to quit her job.

We all have a choice. People who have affairs and want to work on their marriage quit their jobs if they must. That's what Neffer is saying. And that's why Neffer is saying to protect yourself, this WW of yours is still talking to OM and that is not good.