I know and it’s about time I did. I mean I’m not going to lie it is hard staying in the same house. All I get is the silent treatment. Or she sits on her phone. Telling me it would be easier if I move out etc, that I can afford it better than her etc. Maybe I have been to nice and you are right I can’t Nice her back.

It is honestly like a switch has been flipped, two weeks ago we were planning a future again, holidays, budgeting for Christmas etc and now it’s like I am living with a stranger.

I am going to take on board what you said, not in a nasty way or anything towards her but if she wants to leave then she can. I will no longer be made to feel like I am worthless and that I don’t deserve to be happy. The marriage means a lot to me as it was my chance to finally show I was committed and it has backfired. The irony.

Well thanks again people, much appreciated