I want to roll my eyes at him and say WAKE THE F UP. Here I am telling you to GO and now you've made up yet another reason why it isn't your fault that you can't walk and are feeling sorry for yourself again.
I suspect your husband really really really needs you to believe the trash he is spinning for himself. And without getting into an R talk where you try to convince him that your way of seeing things is actually the right way, how about you just lay it out on the table that you think this is all self serving nonsense and you see it, and you're not playing anymore?
Hi May,
I’ve been following along closely. I’ve had so many things I’ve wanted to respond to on this thread, but I really wanted to chime in here and just say that, for whatever it’s worth, I think Alison’s idea is a really good one. I second her recommendation. I think for you personally, as well as for your situation, putting an end to the game he’s playing and calling his BS/bluff/whatever it is, will serve and empower you.
