You still want to punish her. And you still expect her to act like a wife when she doesn’t want to.
I do want her to face karma. I think people who do bad things deserve it. The old testament was all about it. I know I'm not judge, jury and executioner. It still pisses me off how well she has it right now after all the pain she caused my family and I.
I dont expect her to act like a wife, however she acts like Im a husband. Dump all her worries and angers, tries telling me what to do, pouts when I dont give in, judges every breathe I take, complains to her friends that Im a bad partner, yet she has little human like quality towards me. She gets an H as a roomate, I get someone who wants to shank me. Exaggerated to make a point.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
Her commuting to being the wife you want right now is off the table. Not an option. Erase it. You can leave and divorce and give her the consequences you want her to suffer. Or you can continue to live as roommates and parents, you do your thing, she does her thing .
What you want to have happen is off the table now so you have to play the hand you are dealt right now.
True, I keep forgetting this.
Originally Posted by Ginger1
And you totally have the millennial mentality. I’m going to whine about it until I get what I want.
It’s just not the way the world works! It is a cruel world out there.
The very reason why I want a fellow human to battle it with, and lead us through. The complaining I've realized worked on my mother to get what i wanted. Some self reflecting will be done tonight on this.
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