You still want to punish her. And you still expect her to act like a wife when she doesn’t want to.
Her commuting to being the wife you want right now is off the table. Not an option. Erase it. You can leave and divorce and give her the consequences you want her to suffer. Or you can continue to live as roommates and parents, you do your thing, she does her thing .
What you want to have happen is off the table now so you have to play the hand you are dealt right now.
And you totally have the millennial mentality. I’m going to whine about it until I get what I want.
It’s just not the way the world works! It is a cruel world out there.
