So whining is a millennial trait and therefore okay. And expecting W to react appropriately to things you say and do is a personality thing and you will continue to do it.

I think we are seeing a mindset here as to why you may be in your sitch.

"This is the way I am, deal with it!" Ever said that or something similar to your W before all of this happened?

I think you have some 180ing to do.

As far as the IC. Hmmmm, he does an effective style.....which hasn't been effective. This seems like more core stubbornness.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018