Hugs from afar. That conversation is the one I've been dreading more than anything as well. I'm glad you got through it in one piece and can be there with your kids tonight. I read that continuing to make sure they know you both love them, this has nothing to do with them, and validating their emotions as you move forward is all important.
At least now that you're past this big thing, hopefully things can move forward positively without this being something in the future to be worried about, if that makes sense.
May
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
