KC,

Your h will contact you again w/some excuse either about the puppy or he's left something behind or he'll have another question about a bill. It's his MO and he may not contact you in the next day or so, but he will definitely contact you again.

Right now, he's waiting for you to come back at him over his last text. Why? Because he knows you so well and knows that the temptation is there and he figures you'll shoot off a text to him. Bottom line, he baited you and he's hoping to get you so fired up that you'll just say enough and do whatever he wants to get him out of your hair. Sure, we know what your lawyer has told you and thus far, you've stayed the course w/her advice.

Unless his texts are an absolute emergency, just delete them. Whatever he needs, he can purchase it at a local store. This business of continuing to come there needs to stop until papers are finalized and yes, all of the bills are paid and the splitting of funds and/or assets are divided.

KC, you can do this, stay the course and do not allow this man to rattle your cage.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.