I totally understand what you are saying and I do agree to a certain extent.
We have went through this a few times and the one thing I will say is that she won’t stop me seeing my kids, she has never been like that. We worked it quite ok last time, but obviously I don’t want to just have my kids for 50% of my life. I believe in family and if you choose to be married and have kids, then that was you choice and whatever happens you make it work, not just for the kids as I don’t think anyone should be miserable in a marriage. But you talk, you talk and talk until you come to a solution.
So you are right I can’t nice her back, I just don’t want to be painted as a bad person, you know what it’s like people always put their opinion on it and if she is the one to leave no doubt I will be played as the villain. I am not forcing her to go anywhere, as you said if she leaves that’s her choice to make she is a grown woman.
Thanks a lot for the replies, it makes me feel like I am going less crazy. And make me feel a lot d at Yeo her when I think about the situation.
