I find this frustrating because I have not contacted him since he sent this message.
Yes, he came after me with some anger again - angry that I would choose now to make changes and then trying to manipulate me again to release the funds.
I told him 6wks ago I would not release the funds per my atty.
I did NOT respond to his anger other than to say "I hear you" --- a full 14hr later. That is when he sent the last text.
Did I contemplate sending another text telling him he needed to get his own atty because I would NOT be doing the hard work of his D. Yes I did, however I did not send anything.
It was pointed out AND I agree. He is an adult. He wants this money released he can go get an atty and take those steps needed. Its not my job to remind him. Therefore, I did not reply to his text.
There is no point in blocking his texts. He will not ever be texting me again. I get it. He is done with the M, he has moved on, he has his stuff. I'm not under any delusion that he is going to text me that he wants to repair the M.
I've maintained NC for 5 days. Its not been easy - there are times I just want it all over it because I have no patience and other times I just tell myself what the hurry (because I do need the healthcare). Why am I doing all the work while he gets to skate away carefree?