Originally Posted by LH19
To OB's point and something I learned from Peter Crone's work.

He doesn't view anything as a failure. It is just something that happened and it couldn't happen any other way because it didn't.

When you really get that it completely changes your mindset.

When I coached football I preached that you can't not make mistakes (excuse the double negative) unless you aren't trying.

They are learning points and nothing more. The only failure is in not trying and not going 100%.

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