On the second point, yeah, as I find myself feeling more anger about the situation, this certainly comes up a lot. I wasn't perfect by any means, but two years is a very, very short amount of time. (It's actually the root of my embarrassment and hurt over the situation, to be honest.) I don't think she by any means gave everything she had to making it work.
Steve, as a person who has almost a similar sitch with you, I feel your frustration. We feel that our W didn’t give the M a fair chance. Maybe we can prove them wrong. However, you probably understand by now, it’s their issue and we shouldn’t entirely put the burden of the blame on ourselves. Tell me, where does this feeling of embarrassment come from? Is it shame because you feel that you failed to keep your marriage alive?
M: 28 W: 30 T: 2 years Married: Nov 2019 BD: 5 days after wedding (I know right?)
