My biggest thought is that you need to be become the best you can be before you can be everything you want to be in this MR.

Having a lot of negative experiences makes this harder, so you'll have to detach.

Give her time and space and take that time to work on you. Read a lot here, there's plenty of info.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.