keep working on your detachment. Quit trying to take all the blame. Be prepared for those separation papers to say something worse than "separation".
Good luck.
Carried over from the previous thread.
I have to admit that until now, I never thought that might be a possibility. And wow. If that's what it is, then I'll handle it but I almost don't even know what to say. I can't say I'd be shocked because certainly that's what her actions point to, but it would be another extremely out-of-character thing for her to do. I have to remind myself, who she is right now isn't the woman I married.
If that's what she says, the game plan is to simply say "That's not what I want, but I won't stand in your way." No tears. No visible emotion. Make her do all of the heavy lifting, fight for my interests across every conversation.
