Hi all and thanks for input!
I decided to meet him/them but suggested we meet at a playground and Cafe.
He accepted.

Today he writes me again and says the playground can get messy and suggest again that we come to his place instead. Says he will be very glad if we do.
This family...
Might just go there but set a time restriction at an hour or so.

Also W wrote and asked how the kids are. Will answer tonight and maybe send a pic or two.
Still not sure how much I want us to share on our respective times with the kids (pictures etc).
W keeps sending pics from time to time but I almost never do. But now it's vacation time so maybe a bit different. I'm not sure.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021