Thanks LH. I also enjoy some alone time w/out the kids, and actually need it to get shyt done, get some time w/friends, workouts, hobbies, etc. By day 3 w/out them around I am wanting them back though.
I'm 10 months into physical separation and I have not had a shred of longing to be back with W. I guess that makes my sitch a lot easier than many of our friends here on this board. She's got a toxicity to her that is not good, and there's not indication she will ever work on herself, so that's that. I'm just not attracted to her. I also don't chase women. Any woman who does not have high interest in me will not get my attention. And I have found that there is always someone else out there - someone great. I have had serious dating relationships before W, and they obviously ended, but someone else who was great always seemed to eventually drop into my world. Funny how the universe tends to do that.
So summer is in the air, and despite the virus I think it's going to be a great one. 4th of July plans are shaping up and lots of GAL and good time activities happening.
