I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD Pt 18

[JosephS]

1. He knows you aren’t going to push for the D.
2. So don’t drop it. That doesn’t mean you have to tell him that. Or go out of your way to do so.
3. Ok
4. I believe you’ve already told him that.
5. Unless you’re willing to block him and remove him completely from your life you can’t control when he contacts you
6. He knows this isn’t what you want. You’ve made that clear time and again. Again he just doesn’t care what you want.

I’m not trying to be cold here I’m not. But still way to much focus on him. You don’t need to worry about him, you don’t need to focus on him. He isn’t your problem. He knows you don’t wanna divorce. You don’t need to remind him. He’s an adult he’ll figure out what he needs to do when he’s ready to file for the D or when he’s ready to do what’s needed to get the money he believes he’s entitled too.

Ask yourself this question. If your job fired you, would you still be calling them 4 or 5 times a week to check in? Remind them to do certain tasks? Make sure they still really wanted to fire you? Because that’s what’s you’re doing.