may, I've been reading your posts and I feel like you're getting there. to the point where you can really see through your H's bs and manipulation and achieve clarity for yourself. I understand how hard it all is and you have had the gift of being able to see things from a very positive angle. Sometime it is good, sometimes it could deceive you. Anyway, other posters have all given great advice, I just want to tell you that you're a smart, brave woman and you deserve nothing less than what you seek in a partner.
