Well what can I say, we appear to actually be on the cusp of having a financial agreement signed and a D nearly complete. Just have to wait for a court to approve our agreement and then we can get the financial side signed off. It’s only taken over two years to agree on the finances lol . I’m kind of relieved as I have spent more money on this than I care to think about and I’m also a little sad as the end of my marriage is almost in sight. However I’m more than aware that H has a history of running at the 11th hour, something he would do even before MLC. So I will have to just sit and wait now which apparently could be as long as 12 weeks with the current situation and a lot can happen in MLC world in 12 weeks. I’m more shocked that we reached the final agreement through talking directly to each other and not through solicitors. I couldn’t take their nasty letters and further threats of court so I had it out with H direct and it oddly worked. He did give me the whole “ well if you just told me what you need we could have sorted this” speech. Because apparently the endless solicitor letters and hours of mediation didn’t cover what I needed. I had to really restrain myself from not laughing at this. However I’m still waiting a year on for him to give me this signed papers so that I can actually sell the house, despite sever requests. So I refuse to put the house on the market again just to have to take it off again because he won’t hand me these.
For now all I can do is sit and wait and keep my focus on finding a new job and building me and D a lovely new life. I noticed many of you like baking and gardening to help you relax and feel happy. Mine is a good Jigsaw, I do love a jigsaw.
