Hi. Joe is right, I was referencing a 7 day with dad and 7 day with mom. Florida laws are very pro equal time sharing and some combination of equal nights over two week spans is common. This was/is the one hill I would stand on and made it very clear equality is my stance and I’d go all the way to a trial judge on it.
Now, back to what I should be doing.
- no expectations.....this makes sense but it’s incredibly hard. - love and be myself - act in her love language (words of affirmation) - get my own life and detach (need to buy the book)
So.....at what point do you start to feel it’s getting better or it never will be? Should I continue to think about non negotiable things? How do I engage in a discussion about my needs and desires, or do I?
Can anyone share a similar path and how it played out?
