Originally Posted by may22
Originally Posted by Steve85
I think you just proved my point! 😁

In the moment, no, he doesn't actually walk. But it isn't stopping him from wanting to or thinking about it either. I guess it just means he isn't prepared to do it quite yet. Gift of time and all that. Though a big part of me wishes he would just go if he can't cut out the rest of this $hit.


The point is, they threaten because they know you fear it. Once you show them you're not afraid of their leaving, the threats stop. They may still eventually leave, but they will quit using the threat as a tool to manipulate.

"I'm going to leave!"

"Ok, want me to help you pack?"

Yeah, that floors them.


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