I agree with whitneypinch word for word.

Men don’t pursue women unless the vibe is there. Any advances are easily shot down through body language, eye contact, words by a committed woman. If a man continues to pursue, its because he wasn’t shut down. There’s Typically a detached disconnect that becomes awkward small talk when your interacting with a male that you have to interact with because he’s the father of your kids friend. Typically - Not a fun time where you get invited over for wine.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer