If he had the option of a sister wife scenario I truly think he'd take it.
Oh, I know for a fact he'd take it. The night he told me he was back in touch with her and his feelings had come roaring back, he literally said I know polygamy is illegal and this is stupid to say, but... I cut him off.
Originally Posted by wayfarer
Your H chose the MR and still couldn't do the things a normal person who chooses the marriage should want to do just to make his partner feel secure and if nothing else so protect himself from witnessing the AP moving on. But even the latter was too much to ask.
I'm just so frustrated. he's so f-ing stubborn. everything has to be his way in this whole GD mess. I am trying to channel you, let go and let god. I wish I could be stronger like it seems like literally every single person on my thread is able to do. Stand up and boot his lying cheating @ss to the curb. Or strong like you, zen and love and intuition and patience beyond measure. Stop talking to him and listening to him and be cold and hard till he gets the picture. I feel like I can't do any of this. we're going to have a stand off over who is going to blink first and will be in this same f-ing place a year from now. I don't even know how to be kind to myself in this place. (And here I am venting on your thread because I'm scared to say this on my own today.)
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
