Yes, FS, it was mostly the fact that he just did it without even telling me. Moved all his crap out of his rental place and into my home without so much as the courtesy of letting me know. His selfishness recently has been absolute. Something quite dramatic happened the other day concerning the kids (it's all fine, but it was me who had to deal with it) and I was so upset about that and some similar stressful stuff it triggered from about 5 years ago that I cried down the phone at H. He pretty much ignored me and then did not follow up the next day to see if anything had been resolved from the incident. You'd treat a work colleague better than that. Oh well, I should know better than to even bother telling him stuff like that, even if it does involve the kids. I will prepare myself mentally for saying goodbye to my other house, I'll miss it much more than my H...Actually he took a speaker the other day from this house (I don't use it) but you would think that courtesy would dictate saying something like 'just taking this' instead of sneaking it out of the house! Pathetic. I'm pretty sure he has finally finished his job, we need to discuss finances. Might trigger D talk, who knows.
Dating stuff has gone a bit quiet again, it goes in fits and starts. There is no wining or dining yet Alison, nothing is open Covid doesn't stop men asking for sex though, lol, even a threesome request yesterday. I'm treating it as a bit of light entertainment right now, properly suitable men are hard to find and it's a numbers gae. I've been going out running and walking with friends and doing more walks with groups, it's a lovely way to chat to people and enjoy the outdoors on long evenings. I never would have done this in the past, I would have had to wait for a grumpy miserable husband to get home late (maybe, he was often out 3+ nights with work), complain he didn't like whatever I had made for dinner and then he'd get a takeaway and then go to bed at 9pm after watching an hour of sport on tv (I hate sport). I do not miss any aspect of that bit of marriage! Dressing up for dates is fun after months of slobbing round the house, Alison! Hopefully I will find someone half decent to go out with by the time places are properly open to go out to And if I haven't, then I will just join more groups and find new friends to do stuff with
Covid doesn't stop men asking for sex though, lol, even a threesome request yesterday. I'm treating it as a bit of light entertainment right now, properly suitable men are hard to find and it's a numbers gae. I've been going out running and walking with friends and doing more walks with groups, it's a lovely way to chat to people and enjoy the outdoors on long evenings. I never would have done this in the past, I would have had to wait for a grumpy miserable husband to get home late (maybe, he was often out 3+ nights with work), complain he didn't like whatever I had made for dinner and then he'd get a takeaway and then go to bed at 9pm after watching an hour of sport on tv (I hate sport). I do not miss any aspect of that bit of marriage! Dressing up for dates is fun after months of slobbing round the house, Alison! Hopefully I will find someone half decent to go out with by the time places are properly open to go out to 