But will you still see your mistake tonight? Tomorrow? Next week? Will you allow your need of contact to overwhelm your senses and good judgement just so you end up back in this emotional state again?
You say you don’t want to hear from him, yet you make sure you do. Use your attorney. Get a self storage locker for whatever else and send him the key in the mail. Email him he has 30 days to empty it. Leave it at that. That stops the contact and any need for him to be at your home. Money conversations and time share discussions can be had between your lawyer and him. And yes I understand if your lawyer takes over these aspects it makes the D that much more real. However, he told you he loves another woman whom he lives with and he hasn’t wavered in that.
I don’t see the vulnerability he showed. I see annoyance and anger. And his truth is he wants to ride off into the sunset with the money he considers his own with his new partner.
Hang in there. Drop the rope. Detach. Focus on you and stop the focus on him. This needs to be about you, you and more you.
Again I think individual counseling would do wonders for you. And I mean that in a caring way
Last edited by JosephS; 06/26/2004:12 PM.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
