I don't want a divorce II NEW THREAD Pt 17

[LH19]

Yeah... I'm terrible at being defensive... It was my go to horsemen. Coming up with a response that is about him and how he feels and NOT explaining my narrative would be a challenge for me. .

KK I am really not trying to hurt you but this is a narcissistic trait. Something to think about.

All I said was "it makes perfect sense" .

I would have said "I am sorry that you felt that way that was not my intention."

I am not expecting NOR wanting a response. .

This is where you get funny. You say this but..........

At least not any time soon..

Then the truth

I 100% know this is NOT my H wanting to fix our problems. .

I agree but the questions is can you not act on it.

This is about him rationalizing his decision to end it. .

Maybe. I can't comment because I don't know what he said.

He is very much involved with OW and in love with her, not me..

This is where you get funny. You say this but..........

((though he continues to never say a word about her and I've come to accept that is his way of trying to not hurt me anymore than he already has))..

Your rationalization to hang onto the rope

This is my cue to really let go of the rope and NC.

If I was a betting man and I am I would lay good money you have a few more schemes cooked up.