Originally Posted by Pack_19
I had a BD party yesterday from a female friend from university. There were plenty of 29sh women to talk to and I used the chance to see how I am doing with my regained confidence. Problem is most of them are on their way to M or pregnant so I used the night to enjoy some casual conversation about mundane topics with these friends.


Hi Pack. I don’t have advice for you but as someone who is in the same situation, I share your sentiment. We’re both at a stage where we trying to do the right thing but kept second guessing ourselves. It’s difficult.

Also, Happy belated birthday. do we share the same birthday? Mine’s on the 24th.


M: 28
W: 30
T: 2 years
Married: Nov 2019
BD: 5 days after wedding (I know right?)