BTW if you do respond and I am sure you will. Make sure it is not defensive and nothing but validation.
Yeah... I'm terrible at being defensive... It was my go to horsemen. Coming up with a response that is about him and how he feels and NOT explaining my narrative would be a challenge for me.
All I said was "it makes perfect sense"
I am not expecting NOR wanting a response. At least not any time soon.
I 100% know this is NOT my H wanting to fix our problems. This is about him rationalizing his decision to end it. He is very much involved with OW and in love with her, not me. ((though he continues to never say a word about her and I've come to accept that is his way of trying to not hurt me anymore than he already has)).
This is my cue to really let go of the rope and NC.
