He really really can't let you say no to him, can he? Even when the 'no' is about your own privacy around something minor and nothing to do with him.
And when he cleans his own house after his own kids have been doing something fun, and when he puts his own kids to bed, that isn't worthy of a medal. He's parenting to a usual basic standard. It's good that he is doing that rather than not, but it's STANDARD that you'd expect from a co-parent, not a sign that he's not any of the things you also know him to be.
Hang in there May. Looking hot in your swimming cossie!
