It is always difficult for me to watch a LBS be shocked when their lying cheating spouse, lies and cheats.
This is who he is. And belleva deserves much better.
If you D him you will get support.... From him. Almost all states and countries have alimony for SAHMs until the SAHM can get back on her own feet. Plus go for as much custody of the kids as you can. He'll be paying child support too.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018